Thursday, March 29, 2012

You're going to be how old??





Thank you Auntie Anni



I can't believe in just a matter of days year 5 will have come and gone.
Has it really been twelve months?

This is the time of year when I get most sentimental.  Every year my daughter seems to change ages quicker and quicker.  Age six has been the hardest for the me to fathom.  Six just sounds so old. So mature.  Like we are on the brink of a drastic change. Don't get me wrong, I love change.  I love seeing her grow and blossom.  But, at the same time I wonder. Will this be the year she stops wanting to snuggle with me.  Will she be too cool to kiss and hug me goodbye when the bell rings.  Will this be the year she stops thinking I'm cool therefore will want to stop spending a ton of time with me.  So many what ifs.  I'm sure I'm overreacting. I tend to do that.  But in all honesty, this worrying helps me to really appreciate each moment I have with her. It helps me to make sure to connect now while I can. While I can still make an impression.  And, I hope that some of the things I love about us now, will be the same things I love about us when she's a teenager, when she's married and when I'm old.

My prayer has always been that we are always close.  That she'll never to get to the point where she can't stand me or doesn't feel safe sharing her thoughts, feelings & problems with me.  I hope she always  knows I'm here for her.  I was like that.  I loved being home. I love hanging out with my mom.  And, I still to this day shower my mom with hugs and kisses.  I was an odd child and I'm hoping Grace will be odd too.

Happy Early Birthday princess Grace.
May you forever be odd.

We have a fun weekend ahead.
At 10:30am on Friday the Turners will roll into Eburg.
We'll surprise Grace at 11:20 when we pick her up at school.
Grace thinks they are coming at 2pm.  I really love surprising her.

Weather pending we'll head to the Japanese Garden for a lunch picnic.
Then home for hours of best friend play time.
Pizza for dinner and then last minute party prep with Jennifer and Loren after the kids go to sleep.

Saturday morning is her party.
It's going to be grand.
It's going to be full.
We have so many kiddos that want to help Grace celebrate.
I love watching her get showered with love.  Makes mama's heart happy.

Then on Monday, for her actually birthday, we will celebrate again.
Just us.  Well, the little guy I watch will be here too.
She will go to school. Then I have a surprise for her when she gets done.
After the little guy leaves at 4:30pm, we will make a special dinner for Grace and let her open her family gifts from the grandparents/aunts & uncles, etc.   It will be low key. It will be just as she likes things best. Quality time at home.

The next four days will be fun and busy.
They will be filled with joy.
They will be important.
They will be days I'm hoping she'll never forget.

Every life is precious.  Every life is worth getting excited about.  Every life is worth celebrating.
Now. let's get this party started!

Friday, March 23, 2012

Statema Family California Adventure

God is Good!

When Loren left Starbucks they gave him a check. A check we were not expecting to get.
When he got hired they gave him Starbucks stock for free.
When he left left they gave him what it was worth.  Ummm...ok! Thank you, Starbucks.
After praying about what we should do with the money we were lead to take a little family vacation (totally out of my comfort zone....I'd normally rather use money to pay off debt).  The check he was given paid for our flight and our rental car.  Our friend Dee who lives in California offered us her home to stay in while we were visiting and my mom sent us Disney tickets.  What a blessing and so perfectly laid out for us.  We couldn't feel more blessed and cared for.  If it were not for this check and Dee and my Mom we would not have been able to go.  Thank you all!!!

And, thank you Amy for house sitting while we were away and Uncle Chuck and Aunt Barbie for letting us park our car at your house and for dropping us off and picking us up at the airport.  

I was really worried approaching our trip as they weather was suppose to be terrible.
Rainy & cold. Boo Hiss Boo Hiss.
I prayed. I even had friends and family pray. And, God answered.  He answered with abundant beauty.   The day we left the weather report still said the weather was suppose to be awful but from the time we arrived until we left it was sunny blue skies.  Glorious weather.  Not too hot.  Not too cold.  Thank you God for answered prayers.

Here are some photos from the most relaxing vacation any of us have ever been on.

Day 1

-We told Grace our surprise at 7am after she woke up.  She was so excited that her prayers came true. She's been begging us to go to Disneyland for almost a year.
-We left our house at 9:30 and flew out of Seatac after having lunch at Uncle Chuck and Aunt Barbies.
-We arrived in Tustin, CA that evening and made it to Dee's house at around 8pm. 


Day 2

-We started our day off with a morning of play time, pancakes and new friends.


Grace learning to play telephone for the first time around the breakfast table


Then we all headed to Downtown Disney to have lunch at the Rain Forrest Cafe with Dee and Lauren




OH MY GOSH-we are here!!!!



After lunch Dee and Lauren had to attend a birthday party.
So we headed to Build A Bear. Gracie's first time there.



Meet Rainbow

And, what a treat.
Rosalee & Sue, my mom's cousins, joined us at Down Town Disney for the afternoon along with Sues daughter in law and grandson.

We strolled through the shops, stopped to eat Ice Cream and caught up.
It's been 9 years since we've seen them.  So wonderful.


Rosalee bought Grace this special princess wand



When we got back to Dee's we ate a lovely turkey crock pot meal with Lauren, Dee and Norm (Lauren's dad).  The girls played, bathed and then hit the hay.



Day 3
DISNEYLAND

tram ride to the park

1st time meeting Alice and Mad Hatter

Last year in Florida Grace wasn't too fond of the Characters.  This year was a whole different story.






Iradessa 

Tink

On the tomorrow land rocket ship ride

I love the Disneyland's It's A Small World Ride.
Finding all the Disney Characters was a lot of fun.  



The Disney Princess Coronation.  We just happened upon it and so glad we did. She got to learn how to be a princess while getting to dance with Cinderella, Aurora and Snow White. Every little girls dream.



Best Princess experience ever!


Meet up for lunch with friends from the Burg!




And, back to the rides....

That is our child in a tea cup with another family.  Thankful for nice families who take in random little girls whos parents get sick on twirly things.

Zero wait time to see Mickey Mouse.
Yes, please.  And, look at her hugging on him.  

1st time meeting Minnie

Waiting for the parade.
Started to get chilly as the sun went down.

Mickey was totally rocking those drums.
He was really playing.  Amazing Amazing Parade.  





After the 6:30 parade we booked it to the Pooh Bear Ride.  Zero wait time. Score

She is seriously the happiest little munchkin I've ever met

And, she said her favorite ride of all is: Peter Pan!


The Magic The Memories and You!

Waiting for it to start
Grace happy cried during it because it was so beautiful

 And, drum roll please....

Our girly watched the FIRE WORKS!!!
She loved them.  And, I cried.
She has been through so much these last three years. Such a milestone.  Proud and grateful for healing.

I have zero photos but I must say this was the best of all the fire work shows I've seen.
And, what they can do with Tinker Bell at this park blew my mind!

Thank you Disneyland for delivering!

Goodbye Disney Land

After the fireworks we headed out.  We were suppose to get a late night ice cream treat but my dessert lover turned it down because she was exhausted.  I guess 13 hours on your feet and non-stop excitement will tucker one out, especially when you're five.

just seconds after getting in the car

This was the best Disney park experience I've ever had.
And that's saying a lot because I've been literally hundreds of times thanks to having had family work there (Disney World in Florida) since before I was born until I was a grown up.  It was pure bliss.  I have never felt so incredibly happy after leaving a park.
The lines were minimal so we got to go on everything we wanted and without feeling utterly exhausted. The park was full but not crowded.   And, everything was open for Grace to experience.  There was so much for her to do.  And, we just let her be a kid.  And, in return we all felt like kids.

All my Disney Dreams came true!



Day 4


Beach 1: Newport Beach


On the pier

Lots of surfers at this beach.
The waves were very dramatic here.

Our pelican friend

My girl and her crazy self running through the freezing cold water.
The water was like ice and it was cold out, too.
She didn't mind though-until we told her we didn't have a towel and the only clothes we had with us were shorts and a short sleeve shirt (we didn't think we would be in the water today).
Then she was cold.


Making up for not being able to get our Disney ice cream.
Let's hear three cheers for FroYo covered in yummy goodness.



Beach 2: Balboa Beach





I have ALWAYS wanted to ride around a beach town in one of these.
My sweet hubby surprised me.
And, it was a blast.  We couldn't stop laughing & shaking (it was cold with the wind).


Where we stopped for lunch.
Best view atop a pier on the top floor of a Diner.
We saw dolphins and seals right off the pier while waiting for our food.
INCREDIBLE.



I just couldn't believe we were having this much fun.
And, we got to visit and actually enjoy two beaches in one day.
I couldn't stop pinching myself.

After dropping off the Surrey we headed to the beach (since she got soaked and wanted more time in the water/sand, we picked her up a bathing suite in Newport Beach. Still no towel, but thankfully the waves here were so strong she chose to stay in the sand).



Sandcastle


Day 5

Last full day in California

And, we went to Laguna Beach with Lauren.  Her mom let her take off from school to spend the entire day with us.  Grace was so grateful to have a friend to play with.  They entertained each other the entire time.



Dolphins just about 50 feet out.  They played in front of us for two hours.  Most beautiful thing to watch.



happiest girls alive


So you see, my husband and I are very different when it comes to the beach & sand.
Can you guess what the difference is?




There was a rock island that we thought had seals on it.  Since it was just far enough away that we couldn't see but close enough to walk to we headed out on an adventure to find out. So thankful we did.  We found this incredible tide pool with much to explore.

No seals.  Birds! And, stinky ones at that.  I'm told the locals call it Poop Rock.

Look what we found....





my little explorer extraordinaire



Laguna Beach was my most favorite beach.
It offered so much.  Lush beaches.  Dolphins.  Tide Pools. Rocks to explore in and on.
Artsy down town area.  And, a scrumptious ice cream shop.

Who had fun at the beach, raise your hand?


I will definitely be coming back to Laguna Beach.


After a long day at the beach we headed back to Dee's for Chinese take out (thanks for picking it up Dee!).

Gracie's first time eating Chinese food and first time using chop sticks.

Bird watching and pretending to be babies out on their back patio.


Dee and I!
So fun to meet you in person (we've been mama friends on line for almost six years).
And, thrilled at how well our girls get along.
My daughter will forever have a sister.  

Last moments together before we headed out for sunset at Laguna Beach.
It's hard to say goodbye.  Grateful for super funny moments to help us forget that we are sad.





Gracie's first beach sunset


finding shells for her collection.
She found two little sand dollars and two little starfish.



Breath Taking....









After the sun set.....




After sunset we walked around town.  We skipped. We oooed and awwwed at the different stuff we saw.
Then Grace swung on the swing on the beach while it was pitch black out.  So neat to hear the waves crashing just a few feet away from the play ground.  And, because we were hungry and we are crazy like that, we headed into Chick-fil-A for a late night snack.  Grace got nuggets, I got fries and Loren got  carrot raisin salad.  Then home late for bedtime and packing.


Day 6:

Sadness.  We had to go home today.
But our flight didn't leave until 4:30 so we had some time to spare.
We swung through Chick-fil-A for breakfast (one of the managers gave us free entree coupons when we came the night before-score).
Then we headed back to Down Town Disney.
Grace used up the last of her money on one more Build-a-Bear.
And, since she refused to get anything "Disney" mommy bought her the cutest little Alice shirt with socks from Little MissMatched.  Love that store!
And, we made a stop at In and Out Burger for lunch (well, Grace got Jamba Juice since she doesn't eat burgers -smart girl).  And, our final destination: The Air Port.  2.5 hour flight home.  2 hour drive home.  And, to bed we went with giant smiles on our faces and longing hearts in hopes to go back some day soon.




This vacation was needed!



"BEST.VACATION.EVER!"
-Grace Statema


Time away from normal routine.
Time away from worries.
Time spent just with us.
No one elses schedules or plans to work around.
So relaxing. So rejuvenating. So refreshing.  So lovely.




........we will see you again, California.  We love that you are in our same time zone.  We love that you offer beaches AND hills/mountains/hiking!  We love that you aren't too hot or too cold.  If it weren't for your earthquakes, we'd seriously think of moving there.  But, you never know.